Thursday, June 4, 2009

The wish of my heart

THE REST OF THE TALE:

…And the princess rode off to the castle with the prince.

They were married and lived at the castle happily.

They strolled through the garden blossoms and danced among the wild flowers;

they marveled at the sunsets and ran to meet the rainbows in the sky.

They laughed at the court jester and sang with the ladies and knights of the court.

They sat around the fire at night dreaming of what they would do

to make the world a better and more beautiful,

kinder and more gentle place when they became queen and king of the land.

The princess was in the garden one beautiful day when a

tiny lady in a sparkling dress appeared to her.

"Princess," she said, and her voice was like little bells jingling lightly,

"You may have the wish of your heart.

"You must not take this lightly, for as with every wish there is a price to pay;

I cannot tell you the price, but I will tell you that it will be well

worth the reward."

The princess asked for a day to think it over.


She did not mention it to the prince for he was very busy.

The next day the princess was in her garden

tending the flowers when the tiny lady appeared.

"Have you decided on your wish young princess?”

"My wish is to have 7 healthy beautiful children

who love each other and make the world a happier more gentle place."

For, you see, the princess knew that seven has been a magical,

special number since the creation of the world.

"Your wish shall be granted;

please remember as you pay the price that it will be well worth it in the end."


The tiny woman went away.

The princess did not see her again for a long time,

but she thought of her many times during the rest of her life.


Then one day the king and queen died and the young prince

was not appointed to the king.

Instead, one of his cousins was made king

and banished the young prince and his bride into the wilderness

without a penny of their own.

They wandered in the wilderness for many months,

looking for a place to live where there would be a job for the prince

and a cottage for the young princess,

for you see, by then she was ready to have a baby.


The prince was an industrious and talented young man

so he was able to get a job working in a small town

where he made enough money to buy food for himself and his wife.

Soon the baby was born and as the baby grew,

it ate more and more food, and by

that time there was a second baby.

The young prince, older now, had to take an extra job in the town,

while the princess had to stay at home, taking care of the two babies,

and that was not easy, because she was going to have a third baby soon.

The prince and princess did not look as young and beautiful

as they had looked riding off to the castle on that white horse,

but they were still in love, they thought.

They did not see each other often and when they did the things

they had to talk about were nothing to do with sunsets and rainbows,

but they talked about the problems the children were having and the

lack of money and clothes, and the small cottage was not big enough

for the growing family.

The prince would say,

"You want me to work 24 hours a day and night times too?

When all you want to do is dance and raise flowers."


And the princess would stamp her foot and tell him

if he hadn't messed up at the castle they would still be there

and be king and Queen, so she claimed all their problems were really his fault.


They spent so much of their time arguing about who was at fault,

they could not solve any of their real problems.

Arguing just made them worse.

While they argued the children would close up their ears with pillows

so they couldn't hear or run outside into the woods.

It didn't really matter what they did, they could

still hear the words in their heads because

they had heard them so often since before they were born.

Two more children had been born, so now there were five.

Some of the children thought the fighting and arguing must be their fault,

and they felt very badly about it. They began to fight and argue and strike each other in anger. It grieved the
princess; this was not her wish.

She was paying the price, but where were the seven wonderful children

who would be gentle and kind and make the world a better place to live?

One day after the prince had gone off to his first job

early in the morning the princess gathered her children around

her and said that they were going on an adventure.

She told them to get their clothes that they could carry and their favorite toy,

and climb into the cart. Off they all went, excited to be on an adventure.

Night time came and still they traveled on.

The children slept in the cart as much as the bumpy cold ride would allow them to.

Finally the princess stopped at an empty cabin and built a fire.

She put the children to bed. They stayed in the cabin,

fishing for food and running and playing in the chilly winter air,

feeling like all would be well now.

They danced among the wild flowers and marveled at

the sunsets and ran towards the rainbows.

But the children missed the prince and his joking laughter

and his rough housing that he did with them on the rare evenings he spent at home.

Soon they were crying for him every day.

The princess loved her 5 children so very much that

it hurt her so see them sad and lonely for their father,

so she sent a message with a hunter to tell the prince where they were,

and that if he would come join them they could be happy there in the woods,

leaving all their anger behind.

The prince was happy to get the message and managed his affairs,

so he was soon able to join them at the cabin in the forest.

For weeks they danced together among the wild flowers,

and walked among the garden blossoms, they marveled at the sunsets.

and ran towards the rainbows, and soon, another baby was born.

The family grew restless and lonesome for their friends

and the farm they had at their small cottage.

They had all forgotten the anger and fighting

and did not remember how bad they all felt there.

The princess was so happy in the forest,

she did not want to return to the farm,

but she loved her children and the prince so very much

that she said she would go with them back to the cottage

if they had all learned from the experience to

be more loving and thoughtful to each other.


Once again the princess, now older and not so elegant and beautiful,

packed the cart and carried her family through the forest back to the farm

and the cottage. There she walked with the children in the garden,

and she watched as they danced among the wild flowers.

She gladly listened to them tell her of the sunsets,

they saw and gaily watched them run toward the rainbows.

A short time later the seventh child was born and the princess became very ill.

She rejoiced in the birth of their beautiful baby girl,

but feared that she wouldnot live to see the child grow up.

So each day the princess tried very hard to tell each of her children

to be strong and happy. She told the stories that helped them to learn

that they had many choices in their lives that they could choose

to be gentle and happy and kind in spite of the things that might

happen to them. When she thought they had learned these lessons well enough

to live them and teach them to the two smallest children, she went away.

She wanted to take the children with her when she went away this time,

but she knew she could not. She did not have any money and

she was so very weak and ill.

She thought she was dying,

so she left her children with the prince,

for him to care for and pay for and make a home for

and she went away to rest, so that at times when she had the strength

she could see the children and play with them and tell them

how much she loved them.

She wanted to get well and strong so she could

walk with her children among the gardens,

and dance with them in the wild flowers.

She longed to marvel with them once more at the sunsets

and run with them toward the rainbows,


and to teach them once

more to be kind and gentle.

The prince married again and the stepmother was very good and kind

to the children. She took good care of the children when the princess

could not be with them, and the princess was grateful that her children

had two mothers to teach them kindness and love.

Through the years that followed she wrote letters when she was away

and took the children on adventures and picnics when they were together.

She walked with them in the sunsets, and marveled at the rainbows.

She told them stories of the castle and the king and queen and the little cottage.

Stories about the cabin in the forest.

She tried to help them forget the loud unkind words

spoken so long ago when they were so very small,

and the bad feelings they had from them.

The baby girl did not remember the arguments or the forest

for she had not yet been born. She did not remember that

the princess had ever lived in their little cottage with them,

but she loved to go on the adventures with the princess.

She was a beautiful child, and happy and gentle and

she loved to walk among the garden blossoms,

and dance among the wild flowers.

She marveled at the sunset and ran to meet the rainbows.


The princess watched her children grow up to be kind,

loving and gentle people. making the world a kinder, more gentle place to live.

The tiny lady came once again to the princess and said,

"You have paid a high price."

The princess said, "But I have had my wish come true,

and it has been well worth the price, and more."

The children were grown, with children of their own when the princess died.

The children knew she had gone to where the sunsets are,

to rest forever among the rainbows,

but she would be with them in the gardens to dance among the wild flowers,

as they taught their own children to be gentle and loving.

She had left with them this last request:

Decorate my grave not

with brackish plastic flowers


Mocking nature’s reality.

Rather, garnish your days

with acts of kindness

One to another, and

Scatter handsfull of wild flowers or

Garden blossoms upon me to

Remind you that

Loving acts and feelings

Must be repeated daily so that

Love can be eternal.

Wednesday, April 29, 2009

I wrote this letter to the other grandkids in the family when the new baby was born so they could recognize their importance and receive validation in all the confusion of the birth of a new baby (see Lickin' and Groomin')

Date: Wed, 29 Apr 2009 14:09:08 -0600
From:
To:
Subject: Dear GRANDKIDS


I just wanted to tell you what I have been doing today besides working in the yard and posting on my blogs. Get your mom to show you "My 7 beautiful children" by the way. But that's not why I am writing.
I was up this morning at 4:00 a.m cleaning and gardening, some call it "nesting" the way I was the night your mother was born.

I found those crazy checker/chess boards that folded into four squares and would never stay flat when we tried to play on them and about four o'clock this morning I flattened them out and varnished them to the little yellow and blue plastic tables with the holes in them for legos, that don't fit the ones we have.

Then I took the little chess pieces and weighted them with plaster that the carpenter was using on our room. This was about the time you left for school.

I put an old screw and plaster in the hollow part so they are a little heavier and stand up better. Do you remember how they always fell down when we tried to get them to stand up?

I have about three partial sets.(that means the pieces are not all there because I stepped on some of them). So I think I'll buy a couple more sets at dollar store and do the same thing with the pieces so we can have a Chess or Checker Tournament in the back yard.

I put more crafts things out on the shelves from down stairs. Boy, I really did not know we had so much fun stuff to do crafts with. I can't wait until you come to do some.

I've been lashing the fence posts up. That means, I have been tying string around the fence posts and uprights where they come together. The places GrandPa was cutting notches so they fit better, I tied string around them so they stay without falling over. The leaves and flowers are really growing.
I think that is so funny. I put the pictures of them on the blog and called it, "My fence is blossoming!" I showed you some of the photos.

Sorry this is such a long letter. I hope you can come over again really soon.
Love you, Grandma.

Jenny had her baby #4 had #4

Jenny had her baby!!!!!

Teegan Jaxon Sabin

It's a boy!!

Honkin' 8 lb. 15 oz!!!!!

21 in. long!!!

Water broke 3:30 am.

Born at 7:02 am!!!

Was going to be induced 26 hours later,

but didn't have to for the first time!!!

Yeay!!!!

By Lynae

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